I work with competitive and elite athletes in New York on the pressure, identity, and mental weight that come with a life built around performance.
I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) offering private, in-person therapy on Fifth Avenue in Manhattan, and online across New York, New Jersey, and Connecticut.
Competitive & elite athletes
Performance pressure · identity · transitions
Values-based · practical · honest
New York (in person + online)
Competing at a high level asks for total commitment — which can quietly blur the line between who you are and how you perform. Much of my New York practice is athletes who recognize themselves in patterns like these:
• Performance anxiety or mental blocks that training alone hasn’t fixed
• Pressure from coaches, scouts, family, or yourself that never fully lets up
• Fear around injury, or the anxiety of coming back from one
• A quiet dread about who you are if you’re not competing anymore
Some of what I see, again and again, in the athletes I work with:
Anxiety, overthinking, or a mental block that shows up specifically under competitive pressure.
A sense that your worth depends entirely on how you perform, win or lose.
Fear of getting hurt, or anxiety about your body and performance after returning from injury.
Carrying the expectations of coaches, family, or a team, often more than your own.
Exhaustion from a schedule that leaves little room for rest or a life outside the sport.
Uncertainty or dread about who you are and what comes next once competing ends.
This isn’t mental-performance coaching or a set of pre-game routines. It’s values-based, honest psychotherapy on what’s underneath the performance — separating your self-worth from your results, working through the pressure and mental blocks that training alone hasn’t resolved, and building an identity that holds up whether or not you’re competing. I’ll say plainly what I’m noticing, because the pattern that’s driving the pressure is usually the one that’s hardest to see from inside it.
This work is for competitive and elite athletes in New York carrying more pressure and identity weight than shows on the outside — including those navigating injury, comeback, or the transition out of competing altogether. Much of my practice is visible, high-profile athletes who need genuine discretion while they do this work. If that’s where you are, we’ll likely be a good fit.
“I have seen Nicole for about 2.5 years. Every single session with her had been very helpful and eye opening.”
“I have been working with Nicole for what feels like forever. I can't remember a time before Nicole! Meeting with her has become such a grounding place in my week. She's incredibly understanding and open to what you have to say. And at the same time, she is wonderfully straightforward and practical. She's able to bring all my worries, stressors, and insecurities back to reality and help me see what's truly going on. I highly recommend!”
“Nicole is a fantastic therapist and I can't recommend her highly enough. I've worked with her for over a year now and she's helped me build much better management strategies for the stress of life, health issues, and political uncertainty. Above all, I appreciate Nicole's practicality, and it's probably why I've worked with her so long. She helps me realize what I can and can't control and how to cope with that which is outside my control. She's a great listener and usually each session highlights at least one change in behavior we can try the following week to see how it helps. She also holds me accountable in a loving yet growth oriented way, such as highlighting when I repeat the same actions repeatedly despite talking about change.”
“Nicole has been my therapist for about a year and a half now, and I feel more capable of confidently dealing with life's stressors and uncertainties as a result. She has a non-judgemental and welcoming approach to therapy that makes it easy to open up to her. I recommend!”
“I've been working with Nicole for some time now and I can say that she truly cares for her patients. She has given me perspective on situations in my life as well as practices to implement. Overall, I've felt a significant improvement to my quality of life after having worked with her.”
“Nicole is personable, knowledgeable, kind, and fully invested in her patients. I always feel seen and hear by her, even in the moments where she nudges me to push beyond my perceptions and perceived limitations. Working with her has undoubtedly improved my relationships, my day to day and ultimately my mental well-being.”
“I have been seeing Nicole for months and have noticed a huge improvement within my life. She is attentive, patient and reassuring. Every session she makes sure I feel comfortable and understood. I highly recommend!”
“Nicole is an extremely thoughtful, empathetic, and skilled clinician who has helped me through many challenging life experiences. Nicole fosters a safe and supportive environment while also encouraging me to push myself in order to meet my goals.”
“Nicole is incredibly patient and excels at understanding/accepting multiple truths, even if contradictory while working to find a path forward. Nicole understands how to leave blank space and push when necessary. These are aspects that you would cherish from a great friend. 10/10.”
“I want to highlight the two years I've spent working with Nicole as my therapist. Nicole is truly exceptional. When I first came to her, I had a clear set of issues I wanted to address. From the beginning, she created a safe space where I could be vulnerable. What sets Nicole apart is her dedication. She didn't just listen — she went above and beyond every week, researching anything she felt she could deepen her understanding of. Nicole is deeply well-versed in a range of topics and therapeutic approaches. She views every challenge as an opportunity to grow, which, in turn, helped me grow and tackle the issues I was facing.”
“After my first therapist at this practice moved on, I started seeing Nicole on a weekly basis. I appreciate how authentic and honest she is while listening and helping me process the different topics I bring to our weekly sessions. She helps me understand different aspects of my life by pushing me to think beyond the surface and go deeper into my own understanding of self.”
No. Performance coaching typically focuses on mental skills and routines for competition. This is psychotherapy — working on the psychological patterns, identity, and pressure underneath the performance, not just optimizing it.
I primarily work with competitive and elite athletes, including those navigating injury, comeback, or the transition out of competing. Reach out and we can discuss whether it’s the right fit.
Completely. This practice is by referral and inquiry, and discretion for high-profile athletes is central to how I work.
Consultations are held privately and by inquiry.