Entrepreneurs · New York

Therapy for Entrepreneurs in New York City

Depth-oriented therapy for founders carrying the weight of something they’re building from nothing.

I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) offering private, in-person individual therapy on Fifth Avenue in Manhattan, and online across New York, New Jersey, and Connecticut. My work is psychoanalytically informed — a place to slow down and understand yourself beneath the pace of building.

Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) · New York
Therapy for Entrepreneurs
At a Glance

Entrepreneur therapy — scope at a glance

Who it's for
Founders & entrepreneurs
What it helps with

Pressure to succeed · role overload · anxiety · the self beneath the work

How I work

Psychoanalytic · present-focused · relational

Where I'm licensed
New York (in person + online)
Format
Private, by referral & inquiry
Therapy for Entrepreneurs
i. Who Finds Their Way Here

The pressure of building something rarely stays at the office.

When the thing you’re building is your own, the line between the work and the self gets thin. Its wins feel like your worth; its risks feel like your safety. Much of my New York practice is founders and entrepreneurs who recognize themselves in something like this:

  • Starting something new, and feeling the full weight of whether it survives
  • Wearing every hat at once, and never feeling fully competent at any of them
  • An anxiety that runs underneath the excitement and is hard to switch off
  • The freedom to set your own schedule that somehow means you’re never off
ii. How It Shows Up

What the pressure does when no one's watching.

Some of what I see, again and again, in the founders I work with:

The weight of the new

Starting from nothing, with no proof yet that it will work.

Pressure to succeed

Your sense of worth quietly fused to whether the thing does.

Wearing every hat

Switching between roles all day, feeling expert in none of them.

The always-on mind

Being your own boss means the work never fully closes.

Freedom without edges

Setting your own schedule, and struggling to find its limits.

Alone at the top

Carrying decisions you can’t fully share with your team or investors.

iii. How I Work

A place to put it down and look at it.

My work is psychoanalytically informed and depth-oriented. Building something demands constant forward motion — deciding, switching, performing — and leaves very little room to feel what all of it is costing you. Therapy is that room: somewhere to slow down beneath the pace, notice the anxiety and pressure you’ve learned to push through, and understand what’s actually driving them. So much of the weight founders carry isn’t only about the business — it’s about what the business has come to mean, and what it would say about you to struggle. Being closely witnessed there, rather than managing it alone, is often what lets the pressure loosen its grip.

Depth isn’t the whole of it, though. Alongside that understanding, when it’s useful, we bring in practical, evidence-based tools — skills from Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and the values-based focus of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) — to shape a schedule that reflects what actually matters to you, rather than one that swallows you whole. The goal is a working life you feel genuinely in control of, not just one you manage to survive.

iii. Is This the Right Fit?

Clear about who this is — and isn't — for.

Being clear about scope helps the right clients find me, helps referral sources trust the fit, and keeps the work focused.

A good fit for

  • Founders and entrepreneurs (18+) seeking depth-oriented individual therapy
  • People whose sense of self has become entangled with the thing they’re building
  • Those who want to understand the anxiety and pressure, not only manage it
  • Anyone willing to slow down and stay curious about what’s underneath the drive

Not the right fit for

  • Children or adolescents (I work with adults only)
  • Anyone in crisis or needing urgent/emergency care
  • Situations needing recent-hospitalization or higher-level care
  • Court-mandated treatment or custody evaluations
  • People looking primarily for business coaching or strategy rather than therapy
In Their Words

What patients are saying on Zocdoc

5.0 ★★★★★ Based on 12 Zocdoc reviews
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“I have seen Nicole for about 2.5 years. Every single session with her had been very helpful and eye opening.”

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BL
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“I have been working with Nicole for what feels like forever. I can't remember a time before Nicole! Meeting with her has become such a grounding place in my week. She's incredibly understanding and open to what you have to say. And at the same time, she is wonderfully straightforward and practical. She's able to bring all my worries, stressors, and insecurities back to reality and help me see what's truly going on. I highly recommend!”

EA
EA
★★★★★ Verified

“Nicole is a fantastic therapist and I can't recommend her highly enough. I've worked with her for over a year now and she's helped me build much better management strategies for the stress of life, health issues, and political uncertainty. Above all, I appreciate Nicole's practicality, and it's probably why I've worked with her so long. She helps me realize what I can and can't control and how to cope with that which is outside my control. She's a great listener and usually each session highlights at least one change in behavior we can try the following week to see how it helps. She also holds me accountable in a loving yet growth oriented way, such as highlighting when I repeat the same actions repeatedly despite talking about change.”

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WH
★★★★★ Verified

“Nicole has been my therapist for about a year and a half now, and I feel more capable of confidently dealing with life's stressors and uncertainties as a result. She has a non-judgemental and welcoming approach to therapy that makes it easy to open up to her. I recommend!”

MK
MK
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“I've been working with Nicole for some time now and I can say that she truly cares for her patients. She has given me perspective on situations in my life as well as practices to implement. Overall, I've felt a significant improvement to my quality of life after having worked with her.”

DG
DG
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“Nicole is personable, knowledgeable, kind, and fully invested in her patients. I always feel seen and hear by her, even in the moments where she nudges me to push beyond my perceptions and perceived limitations. Working with her has undoubtedly improved my relationships, my day to day and ultimately my mental well-being.”

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SM
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“I have been seeing Nicole for months and have noticed a huge improvement within my life. She is attentive, patient and reassuring. Every session she makes sure I feel comfortable and understood. I highly recommend!”

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CS
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“Nicole is an extremely thoughtful, empathetic, and skilled clinician who has helped me through many challenging life experiences. Nicole fosters a safe and supportive environment while also encouraging me to push myself in order to meet my goals.”

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MN
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“Nicole is incredibly patient and excels at understanding/accepting multiple truths, even if contradictory while working to find a path forward. Nicole understands how to leave blank space and push when necessary. These are aspects that you would cherish from a great friend. 10/10.”

CK
CK
★★★★★ Verified

“I want to highlight the two years I've spent working with Nicole as my therapist. Nicole is truly exceptional. When I first came to her, I had a clear set of issues I wanted to address. From the beginning, she created a safe space where I could be vulnerable. What sets Nicole apart is her dedication. She didn't just listen — she went above and beyond every week, researching anything she felt she could deepen her understanding of. Nicole is deeply well-versed in a range of topics and therapeutic approaches. She views every challenge as an opportunity to grow, which, in turn, helped me grow and tackle the issues I was facing.”

BP
BP
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“After my first therapist at this practice moved on, I started seeing Nicole on a weekly basis. I appreciate how authentic and honest she is while listening and helping me process the different topics I bring to our weekly sessions. She helps me understand different aspects of my life by pushing me to think beyond the surface and go deeper into my own understanding of self.”

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Your Therapist

Nicole Trister, LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) · New York
I’m a New York psychotherapist offering concierge individual and couples therapy for high-functioning, high-profile clients. My work is values-based and grounded in practical, evidence-based tools including CBT and DBT. As a former competitive gymnast and a lifelong runner, I understand first-hand the pull of high performance — and that having it together doesn’t mean not needing help. I’m willing to hold up an honest mirror, which is why my clients tend to stay with me for years.
My credentials & focus: LCSW (New York) · Career stress & burnout · anxiety & perfectionism · individual & couples therapy · CBT · DBT · values-based work · In person at 276 Fifth Avenue, New York, and online across NY, NJ & CT.
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vii. Questions

Therapy for Entrepreneurs in New York City — FAQ

Both — and the line between them is usually the point. When you’re building something of your own, the pressure to succeed, the anxiety, and your sense of who you are tend to get tangled together. We follow wherever that leads. Often the business is the doorway into something more personal underneath.

Being your own boss is double-edged: you can set your own schedule and switch your attention where it’s needed, but the work rarely closes, and “off” can stop existing. Part of what we do is look honestly at that — why the freedom to structure your own time so often becomes never being off. I hold a consistent, protected hour that stays yours regardless of what the week throws at you, and that flexibility is one thing that can make depth-oriented work sustainable for founders.

Therapy. Coaching tends to work on the business and its goals; this works on you — the anxiety, the pressure, and the patterns underneath the drive. The two can complement each other, but what happens here is depth-oriented clinical work, not strategy.

Founders make high-stakes decisions constantly, often while anxious, exhausted, or under pressure — states that quietly distort judgment. Part of the work is building the capacity to notice when a decision is being driven by fear or urgency rather than clarity. I draw on a DBT skill called Wise Mind — the place where reason and emotion meet, rather than one overriding the other — so you can use both your analysis and your gut without being hijacked by either. For genuinely hard calls, we also use a structured pros-and-cons approach that weighs not just the upside of each option but the costs of acting and of not acting. The point isn’t to take emotion out of your decisions — it’s real information — but to keep it from making the choice for you.

 It’s the best thing you could give the time to. The internal work you do here doesn’t stay in this room — it changes how you lead, how you decide, and how present you can be in the relationships that matter, both now and years from now. Your business, your sense of self, and the people closest to you all benefit when you understand yourself more clearly. Making time for this isn’t taking away from what you’re building — it’s an investment in the person doing the building.

If you've been building this alone, you don't have to. Let's talk.

Consultations are held privately and by inquiry.